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LIFE WITH RHEUMATOID ARTHRITIS

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January 2018

RA – Rheumatoid Arthritis-Grieving For That Old You

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You look at yourself in the mirror, you may smile or you may break down and cry.  You smile because you may want to see yourself as you’ve always been but you may shed tears because you know that you’re no longer that person anymore and never will be again when it comes to doing all that you once could before Rheumatoid Arthritis came into your life.  That person staring back is not the person who you once were but a silhouette of  that person so you find yourself grieving for the “YOU” that’s lost to a disease that haunts you and those in your life in a way that you were never in a million years prepared for.  You hug yourself in an effort to reassure yourself that everything is going to be okay but in reality you know that your life is in for a tough go and it has been forever changed and will never be okay the way it use to be.  How quickly did this disease snatch your old life away and set in motion grief and guilt that weighs on you because you can’t live life the way you once could and the way you want too.  Where have I gone? Continue reading “RA – Rheumatoid Arthritis-Grieving For That Old You”

RA-Having Rheumatoid Arthritis-Listen Our Words Have Power

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Words have power but for us, those words can change who we are. As sufferers of Rheumatoid Arthritis it’s not always easy for us to put our feelings into words nor is it always easy to share what we’re going through each and every day. With this comes a myriad of emotions for why this is happening to us and why we wish this should never be.  Talking about our disease is never easy but being able to should never be the issue we have to deal with.  Why should we have to figure out a way make those in our lives understand that our disease is a real disease and not something in our head, something made up or something exaggerated.  It is a devastating life long auto immune disease that will always be a changing disease but can we keep trying to make people understand when their ears are closed, their eyes are shut and their minds are blank when it comes accepting to how this disease affects us. Continue reading “RA-Having Rheumatoid Arthritis-Listen Our Words Have Power”

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