In my day-to-day life my rheumatoid arthritis has not been as bad as RA can be.Β  I have been Blessed to be a person that was able to get mine diagnosed early which has definitely been beneficial for me. Early detection has enabled me to live my life in a way that I am so grateful for.Β  For those that have to struggle so much harder day-to-day than I do, I pray for you.

I sit and wonder how did I get this disease.Β  It is genetic?Β  I’m not sure.Β  I haven’t been able to determine that fact.Β  I do have a sister that has a more progressed form than I do and I know what she has gone through and how much she has suffered to reach the point where this disease has brought her. I look at her and I feel for her.Β  To know the pain she has suffered and those like her is a part of my struggle.Β  I hurt emotionally for her and I feel pain physically for myself.

Another part of my struggle is the mental.Β  I find myself sometimes forgetting that I have RA.Β  You wonder “how can that be”.Β  I have those days when I am pain-free so I feel normal and I remember what my life once was.Β  I remember how it was before I lost my teeth, before I lost my hair and before I could see the difference in my hands and feet, before the pain was a constant in my day.Β  I find myself just wanting myΒ old self back.Β  Then I remember, I am so Blessed to be where I am like I am.Β  To be here with the ones I love in any form is my Hope.

I have to remember that my struggle now isn’t as bad as the struggle can be.Β  I have to remember that I can be in a position where I don’t feel those normal days.Β  I have to remember that I am not the only one with this disease, that there are millions of us with this struggle.Β  I have to remember not forgetting that I have a will to fight is my Victory.

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