Posting today after seeing another sad blog of a wife trying to figure out how to make her husband understand what’s she going through.  It’s really, really sad to this happen especially when you’re trying to understand it yourself.

At first it was I got it, I have your back and then, it’s can’t you get up, do something, aren’t you tired of just laying around.  Well this goes back to how well does anyone understand what we’re going through if they aren’t going through it themselves.

To have someone saying that you’re lazy, looking for sympathy or just pretending are some of the things we have to deal with a lot. And why, because they just don’t understand it. Not saying everyone is in this situation but there a lot that are.  No we’re not lazy, no we aren’t looking sympathy or just pretending.  It’s all real and it is devastating.

So how do we get others to understand? Well that can be difficult. Support is one of the best things that we need next to medicine.  How do we get support?

That’s a good topic to ponder.